Tag Archives: FEAR

Me Too

May 9, 2014


Have you ever wanted to just scream and shout to the world, I DON”T CARE ANYMORE! I GIVE UP! I QUIT! Have you ever been in a relationship and felt like yelling, PLEASE, LISTEN TO ME! TALK TO ME… WHY CAN’T YOU JUST LOVE ME? Have you ever thought to yourself, I’M SO TIRED… NO […]

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How To Move On (recognition and the value of emotions)

March 31, 2014


feelings switch

A guide to help victims become survivors. In a previous post we spoke of the five stages of grief. If you are a victim trying to understand how to move on with your life after surviving whatever loss or tragedy you’ve had to deal with, then this is for you! This is where it all begins. […]

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Baggage Claim!

February 2, 2014


Baggage Claim!

We have all been hurt in the past, but do you carry the hurts and disappointments with you like old baggage? Does it interfere with your current relationships? Are you fearful, angry or distrusting of the opposite sex? Check Your Baggage It seems we all have some sort of baggage we bring into our relationships, […]

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How To Move On (denial and the 5 stages of grief)

February 2, 2014



A guide to help victims become survivors. Can anyone else relate to this? “I don’t want to be a victim OR a survivor! I want to live an alternate reality. I don’t want this to be my reality and I spend a lot of energy trying to avoid it. I do pretty good until something […]

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How To Move On (freedom in remembering – part 1)

January 27, 2014


Break Free!

A guide to help victims become survivors. We’ll try to answer the questions that have come in one at a time. I pray this stirs much discussion which others find useful and encouraging! I received another email recently and in part, I was asked “how” is it possible to write about all this stuff if […]

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December 11, 2013



LIFE SHRINKS OR EXPANDS IN  PROPORTION T  O      O  N  E  ‘  S COURAGE So you’ve hit a wall in life… Now, what are you going to do about it? You will try to move it go around it and climb over it but you are blocked. It seems an impossible feat. You […]

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December 7, 2013



  F alse E vidence A ppearing R eal Think about how true this acronym is. I have carried so much fear in my life although, not for the reasons you may think. One of my greatest fears has been that I’ve had to pretend to be someone else for so long that I don’t […]

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Many Fears

December 6, 2013


Fear to fly and soar up high Yet, fear to fall and say goodbye Fear to achieve and even succeed For I know what greed and wealth can mean Fear to gain and then to lose Fear to dream whatever I choose Fear of becoming all I have seen Fear that hatred might consume me […]

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What We Learn About Ourselves

October 25, 2013


What We Learn About Ourselves

As a teenager and young adult I didn’t know how to work through conflict. I was young, dumb and scared to death. The only way I knew of resolving conflict was modeled to me in extremes. If there was conflict, or a difference of opinion even, it meant that eventually someone would get beat, jailed, […]

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Dreams Die

September 1, 2013


Shhh... it's a secret!

Do you believe some dreams are meant to die? Until this past year, I never believed they did. I have always advocated others to ‘believe in’ and ‘achieve’ their dreams by way of personal example and perseverance. To have unwavering faith. To not allow any man or experience rob you of your beliefs or destroy […]

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