Tag Archives: choices

50 Shades of Crazy! (things I learned from online dating)

December 8, 2014

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After spending over two years on dating websites, you can bet I learned a few things. Here are my thoughts, tips and a bit of advice for your viewing pleasure. Even if this isn’t your thing, I’m willing to bet we can share a few laughs, as I describe what window shopping for a date […]

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Thank You Savannah, Georgia!

November 30, 2014

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If we’re connected on Facebook, then you already know how I spent last week circling the East Coast for a possible business opportunity(s). It was a wonderful trip for many different reasons, which I will break up and share in the next couple of posts. Gratitude First and foremost, I must express my deepest gratitude […]

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No Regrets

October 21, 2014

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Your treatment of me, made me run straight into the arms of Jesus. For that, I am eternally grateful, because now I know what REAL love is supposed to look like. I raised my standards after experiencing how forgiveness, grace and mercy are suppose to work in our lives, in order to promote change. Therefore, my […]

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Called To Serve

September 29, 2014

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Pain and pride Are in our stride Shouldered to protect Innocent lives Despair and grief For all we’ve seen Righteous anger For some who lead Power and money Can corrupt good souls Tempting the best To lose control So, a license to achieve By whatever means Tests our faith And all we believe As we […]

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Abusive Relationships

September 6, 2014

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Ladies, if you have to question whether or not you are in an abusive relationship… then you probably are. I’m not just talking about dating relationships either, because sometimes we have friendships that are just as controlling and demeaning. The dynamics are the same between the victim and the abuser – it doesn’t matter if […]

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To Wound Thyself

April 7, 2014

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How many wounds are self inflicted How many days spent in self hatred? How much time wasted in hibernation Or wallowing in a dark depression? Despair Deprivation Devastation Desperation… Are you dying inside instead of living Do you feel lost in this world or un-forgiven? Do resentment and bitterness habituate your life Or perhaps you have […]

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Love is a Choice

March 29, 2014

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Love is not always easy ~ not unconditional love. Sure, it’s nice to feel like you’re in love, but love is very much a choice. It doesn’t matter if we’re speaking about the love a parent has for their child or a romantic love, because it’s all the same concept. It’s easy to show love […]

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Quit Trying So Hard!

January 16, 2014

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“Why do you try so hard to fit in when you were born to stand out?” “Why do you try so hard to live a normal life when you were born to live an extraordinary life?” I have been asked questions, such as these, by people from all walks of life ever since I was […]

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The One You Feed

January 7, 2014

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Not Your Mediocre Love

December 24, 2013

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In the last post we talked about the importance of time. About how life is too short to waste our time on things of insignificance or on things that are not adding value to our lives. This includes our relationships. While there are areas where we must learn to compromise, we should each have those […]

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YOU Are NOT…

November 20, 2013

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I do not know who you THINK you are, but let me to tell you who you are NOT… YOU are NOT My master, my ruler or my owner You do not control me, possess me or own me I am not for sale, yours to share or easily spared You do not think for me, speak […]

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Be Hers

August 3, 2013

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Be Her Safe Haven A re-post: by jadedheart Let her cry if the tears need to fall Let her release the pain of it all Just hold her close as the tears flow down So that she knows that she will not drown Though you can not erase her pain Just be the life boat in the […]

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